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Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Verbally raped

Yesterday was a stressed day.

I was online chatting with 2 friends, thinking to relax myself from work stress. Somehow the talk was getting twisted. It started to sound like sekuhara to me. I asked them to stop, they didn't want.

Finally, I cried. I offlined. For the 1st time, I felt like I was verbally raped. From someone I respected.

The feeling was terrible.

Ladies, have you ever had a feeling like me?

I wish to know.

16 Comments:

At 6:28 AM, Blogger GRoovy ReneGade said...

Here is the plan. Pretend to be evil and degenerate like Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct and say something noncommittal but creepy. The most important thing is the tone not the content- it will totally turn them off - because they want to scratch a pure surface and leave a mark. It will be really frightening and nauseating if you turn out to be just like them. Like, "haha, I have been waiting for your true faces. How remarkable Bwhahahahha."

That's sick, right?

 
At 6:45 AM, Blogger JoeC said...

huh? friendz did this? i dun think they are friendz at all... u juz have to ignore them like "your wordz meant nuthing, cuz you are worthless to me"

Be strong, i would never again speak to them ever! you'v got a life, they dun, why go to their level at all, you are better. take care ya.

 
At 6:56 AM, Blogger cooknengr said...

Hey Fish Fish, wipe off your tears and ignore them, you know they don't get any in real life.

 
At 7:19 AM, Blogger MamaBoK said...

Hey..FF,
That's not good at all..!! i would never speak with them again..!!!
And nope.. i haven't experience anything like that either.
Maybe. .coz' i'm not that "leng lui".. kekeke!!

 
At 8:42 AM, Blogger Yuen Li said...

Awwww... Sorry to hear that.

Did you engage in any light sexual banter with them initially? The reason I ask is that if you did, perhaps they might have mis-interpreted that as a go-ahead to be more explicit, and they didn't realise that you truly were so discomfited (ie they may have thought they were just teasing you).

On the other hand, if you hadn't said anything that might have been miscontrued in that way, then perhaps those friends aren't really as nice as you thought they were. Perhaps you should ask other female friends whether they've had similar experiences with those two guys. If from them you learn that there is a consistent pattern of harrassment, then there would be a strong case for ignoring them in the future.

 
At 8:26 PM, Blogger xes said...

sobsob, i know how u feel.. its like when u asked me about xxx stuff in malaysia when i was @ your place with janee.. sob sobsss

 
At 12:34 AM, Blogger fish fish said...

groovy renegade : Nice advise. To be more evil huh~

joec : Thanks. These are the warm words. I guess I'm too naive.

cooknengr : Maybe you are right. ^_^ Thanks.

mamabok : Well, it's not a matter lenglui or not. In fact, I'm just a very normal person. hehe...

yuen li : Actually one of them, I have told him many times I don't like this him to talk like this. But it seems like he always thought I talk fun angry only. Ah well... at least now I am rock heart to do a decision. :) Yah~ my bad too, to show that I meant serious in not a strict way.

xes : Mr xes, so asking you about the question "Is a girl's virginity important to you" made you cried. So sorry. By the way, do you mean I deserved what I had? Thank you very much for the kind words. May god bless you.

 
At 1:54 AM, Blogger Julie said...

ff moi.. sorri to hear tat.. wipe them off n be strong.. if i were u.. i would get their email addies n start flooding them wif bible verses till they became saints.. -_-

 
At 6:26 AM, Blogger Acrix said...

*HUG* Hope u will feel better soon :) This somehow relates to the Seku Hara post involving the naked oldman in Shikoku except that yors is involuntary and verbal but his is visual and voluntary :P

 
At 8:30 AM, Blogger Blackwidow said...

FF, just said F you, and sign off. No need to cry for this type of situation. It's cyber space, people acted crazy and insane.
Dai jou bu.

 
At 9:23 PM, Blogger fooDcrazEE said...

yeah, just type FU and then log off. No need to cry over this type of friend.......

They might meant it as a joke but as friends and someone u respected...they should respect u too. if they dont, then ask them to fly kite.....dont cry...b strong.

 
At 12:36 AM, Blogger fish fish said...

julie : bible? Haha... have you ever heard of Dui Niu Tan Qing. ^_^

acrix : Well, I wouldn't call that Ojisan happening as sekuhara though. :) *hug back*

blackwidow : Well, I did say the F word in bold. You know I don't say this word unless I am really very angry. Nope, no need to cry oledi. I'm totally daijobu now. I got a very meaningful email, that healed me 100%. Gave me the strength. ^_^ Guess where it is from. ;)

foodcrazee : Thank you. Well, one of them apologised. He took the effort. Another one? A coward.

 
At 2:32 PM, Blogger milgwimper said...

Fish Fish,

I am so sorry this happened to you. I felt so terrible and angry for you so it took me awhile to write. (It is very hard to try when angry.) I am most glad that you are feeling better about the situation now that one of them has aplogised. I am sorry the other is too cowardly to do that. Stand up like an man and aplogise for the horrible treatment of our wonderful Fish Fish! *boxin his ears. HUGZ Fish Fish and Stay strong. :)

 
At 8:36 PM, Blogger fooDcrazEE said...

good for him to apologize....anyway, go cook up some good food and take it as ur comfort food....u will feel much better after that.....

Keep Kewl and B Strong..

 
At 1:02 AM, Blogger fish fish said...

milgwimper : *hug back* Thanks dear. I am ok now. Well, it means nothing to me now. :)

foodcrazee : Heeee... food indeed a great heal. ;)

 
At 8:22 PM, Blogger min said...

Eh why like that?Slap him when u next see him ah!Tell all your friends about this jerk!

 

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